Thursday, February 18, 2010

Connecting and disconnected

Year by year.. People come into our life just like Touch n' Go. Some stayed and some left. When we looked back to where we were, we somehow will reminisce the great times we spent together among with our friends. We will miss that, but we didn't really ask for that to be happened again, for some reasons. Cos' there's a long period of disconnection between us..

Think about it.. Did they leave us? Or we, ourselves, are actually the one who have left them?

In times, we will find that there are some people who are always around us. We share most of the hardships and joys together, have real great moments like we ever had.. So, we somehow stick together, like forming a group of few people. Sooner or later, the other people will categorize us as a group. Whatever gathering we would have, we would gather all the group members and show up together. When the bond is getting stronger, we even plan for the future. Where and when shall we go for a vacation? and even imagine that would we still be together as a group in the future..

Who would you call when you have something to tell or when you face some problems and you need a listener? You check your contacts full of hundreds or even thousands of numbers.. Scrolling up and down.. Who would you call eventually? The people who you would call, are the friends you needed the most. A friend in need, is a friend indeed. Don't it? :)

For me, I like to have good conversations with my friends. Even sometimes we were just gossiping, talking trash and making jokes.. If you feel good in the middle of the conversation, then it is. Sometimes, we just wish that the time hasn't come as we didn't want to end the good conversation we are having.. cos' this doesn't come easily!

For the friends (especially someone!) who live in some godforsaken place hundreds miles away from me. I just wish that we could meet up a.s.a.p. Chatting all day long just like what we used to. I hope all of you are well and safe.


Written by,
Ryan Ng